We spent a couple of hours today getting prepped for our upcoming chemotherapy sessions, the next round in the battle against the insidious little invader that cost us our bladder and prostate.
Starting bright and early Tuesday, we’ll be spending five or six hours hooked up to an intravenous line that will pump us full of a chemical cocktail designed to interfere with the cellular division of what’s bizarrely known as a “high grade metastatic micropapillary urothelial carcinoma.” It’s perhaps the first time we’ve encountered something called “high grade” that isn’t desirable. [The second breed of cancer they found, adenocarcinoma, was considered irrelevant since it hadn’t escaped from the dearly departed prostate.]
We’ll be partaking of a two-chemical mixture, featuring cisplatin and gemcitabine hydrochloride, with the former being the kick in the ass as far as nausea goes. Two more sessions will follow with only the latter compound, and thus without the urge to purge.
Possible side effects include fever nausea, aches, mouth sores, insomnia, diarrhea and or constipation, loss of feeling in the extremities, high frequency hearing loss, and kidney damage [to name a few] as well as the almost inevitable hair loss.
Considering that the alternative is a very strong possibility that a very aggressive cancer will pop up elsewhere in the old bod, chemo seems the lesser of two evils. The surgeon says that without it, he gives even odds on a recurrence [and with a glum prognosis], compared to a twenty percent chance of recurrence with the chemo.
So what the hell. We’re already missing some key body parts, so why not the hair, too? Besides, unlike the bladder or prostate, it’ll grow back.
So come Tuesday morning, we’ll pack up a few good books and maybe a flick or two to play on our laptop and embark on life’s latest adventure.
Sharing such experience with dear friends is a challange for me and I guess for anyone. Thanks for the report, I spent all yesterday evening writing an email to a dear friend regarding my Parkinson’s venture. I shall forward it to you as my way of sharing. I am amazed at some of the ways I change as I proceed through my “golden years” (ahem. . . )
Bill
I’m here for you Daddy-o!
WOW _big_ odds difference.
Sounds like youre fighting high-grade with high-grade.
People talk about bravery, well, taking on nausea is brave. Good decision! Thank you! And hey, it’s hat season…
Gorman has at least one new cartoon. Think machinegun for a dick. A good drawing and essentially family-friendly XD ! Can I tell him you want it?
Love!
PS When’s that grandbaby due?
PPS Them movie disks I have an albumfull of are about a decade old but might be worth a look. Also you can reintroduce yourself to Jack at Dark Carnival Bookstore and tell him I promised you a novel and or audio book for your uh trip….
PPPS If land should be given to a new Palestine, you could be the first to ask an acre for acre match from Jordan, pretty please?
llI will be wishing you all good things. You know all you have to do is call if you need anything.
i told Jack to expect you for your gifties!
Being sick isnt sposed to all nausea!
Do your part, duuuude. XD
Just ask them the % of survival with the chemo!
God Bless!
Beautiful words. Thanks for sharing your story!
You are gonna do an A+ job OBVIOUSLY. The spawn within my womb gives you two thumbs up and a lot of wiggles.
Hi! I’m Jackie and krys’s ex-roommate and just stopping by to say kick chemo’s butt! I send light your way and may you find your new healthy life!